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Warning of a Dangerous Relationship

Warning #1: He claims you as his own and tells his friends to stay away from you before you have even said two words to him. He isn’t even giving you a chance to get to know him or say you want to be with him before he starts telling everyone that you’re his. What happened to me personally is that I was spending a lot of time with his best friend and I had a crush on his best friend (the feeling was mutual.) But then he told his friend that he liked me, claimed me, and his best friend backed off, leaving me stuck with this guy I didn’t even know. Granted his friend wasn’t much better for not standing up for me but that’s not the point. If some guy starts claiming you as his and alienating other people from you because of it than you immediately need to take action.

Warning #2: He does nothing but lie to you. If he is constantly lying to get his way with you, if he is making up stories to get you to like him or to drive you away from the people you care than put a stop to it. Call him on those lies and make it very clear you want nothing to do with him ever again.

Warning #3: He is clingy. It might sound harmless or like he is just insecure but watch out it leads to trouble. Him being clingy, for whatever the reason, can lead to danger. It can lead to him calling you every hour, every half hour even, it can lead to him following you around becoming like a stalker. If you can’t spend time with on a certain night it can lead to him being very angry and yelling at you for it. I remember with mine he called me and texted me constantly, if I didn’t respond back to a text in ten minutes or less he would send another one saying that I hated him or I was with some other guy. Considering the fact that I wasn’t even dating this guy, it was scary for him to be that possessive which leans to the next warning…

Warning #4: It’s wonderful to have a man who cares about you, wants to protect you and wants you with him. But once he crosses the line from being a sweet boyfriend into being scary possessive it’s time to take a big step back. If he starts insisting you only spend time with him, that you stop seeing your girlfriends, that you have no male friends in your life than it’s time to kick him to the curb.

Warning #5: He has anger serious anger issues. I’m the first to say that if a man fought for me that I would love him even more. But if he gets angry at you, threatens to hit you, takes his anger towards someone else out on you than you know you are in serious danger. In fact if you even think he is going to start taking his anger physically out on you than its time to go to the authorities. Even though I am telling you to go to the authorities I have to be honest and say that I can’t guarantee they will help you. In my personal experience they didn’t offer much help. This is what happened; after another fight about how I didn’t want him in my life at all he decided to take his anger out on his ex girlfriends car, by taking a crowbar to it and totaling it. The police got involved, put him in jail and he was taken out of school. But after he said he would go to anger management he was back in school and plaguing my life. So while the authorities helped for awhile in the end it was ultimately up to me. Remember I knew what I was doing, I could handle myself against him but if you have any doubt of being able to handle yourself against a abusive person in your life then don’t attempt it. Get someone you trust to help you, whether it’s a parent, a older brother, a uncle but don’t risk yourself if you can’t handle it.