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Monthly Archives: March 2017

Warning of a Dangerous Relationship

Warning #1: He claims you as his own and tells his friends to stay away from you before you have even said two words to him. He isn’t even giving you a chance to get to know him or say you want to be with him before he starts telling everyone that you’re his. What happened to me personally is that I was spending a lot of time with his best friend and I had a crush on his best friend (the feeling was mutual.) But then he told his friend that he liked me, claimed me, and his best friend backed off, leaving me stuck with this guy I didn’t even know. Granted his friend wasn’t much better for not standing up for me but that’s not the point. If some guy starts claiming you as his and alienating other people from you because of it than you immediately need to take action.

Warning #2: He does nothing but lie to you. If he is constantly lying to get his way with you, if he is making up stories to get you to like him or to drive you away from the people you care than put a stop to it. Call him on those lies and make it very clear you want nothing to do with him ever again.

Warning #3: He is clingy. It might sound harmless or like he is just insecure but watch out it leads to trouble. Him being clingy, for whatever the reason, can lead to danger. It can lead to him calling you every hour, every half hour even, it can lead to him following you around becoming like a stalker. If you can’t spend time with on a certain night it can lead to him being very angry and yelling at you for it. I remember with mine he called me and texted me constantly, if I didn’t respond back to a text in ten minutes or less he would send another one saying that I hated him or I was with some other guy. Considering the fact that I wasn’t even dating this guy, it was scary for him to be that possessive which leans to the next warning…

Warning #4: It’s wonderful to have a man who cares about you, wants to protect you and wants you with him. But once he crosses the line from being a sweet boyfriend into being scary possessive it’s time to take a big step back. If he starts insisting you only spend time with him, that you stop seeing your girlfriends, that you have no male friends in your life than it’s time to kick him to the curb.

Warning #5: He has anger serious anger issues. I’m the first to say that if a man fought for me that I would love him even more. But if he gets angry at you, threatens to hit you, takes his anger towards someone else out on you than you know you are in serious danger. In fact if you even think he is going to start taking his anger physically out on you than its time to go to the authorities. Even though I am telling you to go to the authorities I have to be honest and say that I can’t guarantee they will help you. In my personal experience they didn’t offer much help. This is what happened; after another fight about how I didn’t want him in my life at all he decided to take his anger out on his ex girlfriends car, by taking a crowbar to it and totaling it. The police got involved, put him in jail and he was taken out of school. But after he said he would go to anger management he was back in school and plaguing my life. So while the authorities helped for awhile in the end it was ultimately up to me. Remember I knew what I was doing, I could handle myself against him but if you have any doubt of being able to handle yourself against a abusive person in your life then don’t attempt it. Get someone you trust to help you, whether it’s a parent, a older brother, a uncle but don’t risk yourself if you can’t handle it.

Steps of Getting Over a Breakup

Many people go through break-ups, which makes it necessary to struggle with getting over one’s ex. When you want to overcome your ex, you should understand that it is not going to happen in an instant. Getting over a breakup is a process. In this process, you will go through a number of emotional states. For instance, you may experience shock, denial, grief, and anger. You may also get into a rebound relationship. These are not things you are likely to pass through willingly, and you may wish there were a way in which you could avoid them. However, the entire process will leave you with quite a rich experience. Here are some helpful pieces of advice.

Grief

One of the most challenging emotions you will experience right at the beginning of your break up is grief. Many people tend to be overwhelmed with their grief, making it difficult to move on. The duration of your relationship has a significant part to play in the level of grief you will experience. The intensity of your relationship will also matter.

It is important to know how to get over a breakup so that you do not find yourself in some kind of quicksand. You should be prepared for pain in the process of getting over your grief.

Denial

Once you have gotten over your grief, you will just enter into another stage of getting over your ex, which may as well be damaging if you get stuck in it. This is the denial stage, whereby your brain tries to avoid the reality of your breakup. You may try to believe that your relationship is still intact after all. Luckily, the denial stage is often short-lived.

Acceptance

After you have gone past the denial stage, you will be prepared to accept the fact that you have indeed broken up. It is only after you have accepted the situation that you will be ready to move on. However, this does not mean that your problems will be coming to an end. There are still other challenges in the process of getting over your ex, which takes us to the next possible stage.

Rebound relationship

Many people find themselves in rebound relationships simply because they believed that it could not happen to them. When you come to terms with the fact that no one is really beyond getting into a rebound relationship, you will be well prepared to tackle it.

Getting engaged changes Relationship

It may be one of the most exciting points during the lifetime to dream and plan your future lives together. It is now time when you are purchasing a house or apartment and decide if you need to fill that extra bedroom having a bassinet or if you want to reserve it for the mother-in-law’s visits.

In all seriousness, it’s a time when you need to find out that you both agree to numerous issues. You are not planning to determine if he squeezes the toothpaste tube in the centre or from your end until after the “I dos,” but this time is also a time to look at where he/she stands on religion, children, finances, politics, in addition to a host of other items.

You should find out fundamentals prior to the marriage and learning these products in the loving and sharing way brings your relationship to some whole new level and provides new depth to your love. Utilize this time to become closer and more in tune with one another.

Determine if you’re afraid to question or if you feel the liberty with this particular person to start your lifetime completely with them. All things considered, it’s your entire life you happen to be pledging to the person.

When you invest in engagement, you must do the things yourself you have always wanted to do. As soon as you say those vows, things change for even more. Your live is going to be so included in learning about one another, you won’t have the time to do those things and so they can be lost dreams. When that takes place they tend to become regrets which you hold against your spouse as the years pass. Not a good approach to begin a life together.
So, take a deep breath, take a look at the brilliant future, and ride the euphoric wave of love. This is just the start of a very important thing you will do in your life. Whenever you find love, everything falls into place, there’s nothing better on the planet. True love built on growing together day after day, experience after experience; nothing is more precious in your everyday living. Appreciate it together!

Way to keep Boyfriend

1 – Learn How to Talk To Him

A lot of times what we say is not as important as how we say it. Learn what communication style your man responds to. If your man shuts down when you start speaking to him, pay attention to your tone and what you are saying; it’s obvious that he is.

2 – Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

You may be criticizing him for spending too much time under the hood of his car. If he loves to work on his car, why is it that you have a problem with him doing what makes him happy? If your problem is you wanting him to spend that time with you, maybe you have too much time on your hands. If your boyfriend is a dirty grease monkey when he’s done, consider drawing him a bath and join him in it. Don’t make him choose between you and the things that make him happy; you may not like the choice.

3 – Constant Learn About Yourself and Your Man

Learn how your man thinks without thinking for him. Learn how to talk to him, how to comfort him and how to encourage him. By doing these things, you’ll find that what he wants is to be closer to you. Why? He will feel like you understand him, no matter what he does.